Memory From: Jessica Hunt

How do you Know Liz? Crossfit Old Bay

When and Where did you meet? 2014 at Old Bay

Memory:

Your mom is one strong woman. I had the privilege of working out with her and your dad numerous times in 2014 and 2015. She always had the biggest smile on her face. A smile that could and did light up the room. Thoughts prayers and hugs to your entire family.

Memory From: Myles

How do you Know Liz? High school

When and Where did you meet? 1995 Spring, Exeter, NH

Memory:

Liz and I were really close during my years in high school. She was always a source of positivity, humor, and energy that I found a necessity in my life at PEA. I had a number of good friends, but Liz always found ways to make me happy by putting things into perspective. She helped me understand my potential in many venues of life and I will be eternally grateful for her presence in my life. No matter how long it's been since I've seen her, I'll always love her like yesterday was the last time I saw her. She is an integral portion of those four years of my life and her name is written into the fabric of my soul.

Memory From: Tina and Floyd

How do you Know Liz? Family

When and Where did you meet? Ryan brought her to the farm

Memory:

The time they come to the farm and we took a ride with the wagon Heathers youngest was maybe two and she wanted Liz to hold her and Liz was afraid if her and not sure what to do. She picked her up and Aylah sat on her lap for the rest of the ride.

Memory From: Lori Walker

How do you Know Liz? Through working for the Navy.

When and Where did you meet? We met at the Washington Navy Yard when the FFSC was being stood up.

Memory:

I used to love my chats with Liz. The passion she had for her job was inspiring and we always knew she was going to keep fighting and advocating for the sexual assault victims in the military. It was a really sad day when she left us to go to work for DOD but they needed her there to keep up the fight. She will always be one of the women in my life I will always look up too and hope that if I ever have to fight that I have the strength to keep going like her!

Memory From: Faith Burns

How do you Know Liz? I met Liz when I was working for the YWCA as an advocate for victims of sexual assault and domestic violence. I learned a lot from this beautiful woman that dedicated herself to the same work for the Navy. We lost touch after I left the YWCA. I have no doubt that she has continued to light up rooms everywhere with her meaningful presence.

When and Where did you meet?

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Memory From: Nicole Ryan

How do you Know Liz? Friendship started at CrossFit!

When and Where did you meet? Hmmmm....2015ish at CrossFit Old Bay

Memory:

I met Liz and Ryan while I was coaching at CrossFit Old Bay. Liz walked in ready to go full steam ahead. Right away my favorite traits were her competitive nature, intelligence and her wit. I was always so happy when she came to my class (of course Ryan too!) Ryan and Liz together were hilarious. Both with a wonderful sense of humor and a strong sense of self. There were no pretenses. And that remains true to this day. They were always open and honest about what was going on with Liz’s health and inspired everyone. Seeing them become parents was amazing. They rolled right into parenthood with grace and charm. I haven’t stopped thinking of the Blanc family since I heard the news that time is short. And when I think of Liz and Ryan I just think of happiness. And not the happiness where everything is rainbows and bunnies. It’s the happiness that comes with being with the person you love, raising amazing children and being so confident in who you are that you aren’t afraid to fight for your life. Gosh Liz will be so missed. I feel so blessed to know her. I’ll always consider it an honor knowing Liz.

Memory From: Michele Fulton (Nelson)

How do you Know Liz? Former classmate

When and Where did you meet? BCDS

Memory:

When I think of Liz I remember fun times at BCDS. She was an incredible athlete. When I think of her, I think of the word strength. That’s how I remember her, strong. Fierce.

Memory From: Laura Reagan

How do you Know Liz? I met Liz in 2007, when she was working for the Navy and was new(ish) in town. I worked in the sexual assault program at the YWCA and she reached out to network. We became friendly then but when I left the YWCA in late 2008 we didn’t keep in touch except through Facebook. Later, in 2013 I worked with the Navy in Annapolis when she was working at the Navy Yard. We then saw one another at monthly meetings, trainings and conferences. I left the Navy position in 2014 and we haven’t been in touch since so I was shocked to hear of her health news.

When and Where did you meet? Oops guess I answered that

Memory:

I have fond memories of those conversations we had when we were beginning to build a friendship. It was helpful to me to have someone to talk to about the work we both did, when I didn’t know many other people with the same

Memory From: Cindy Stewart-Daversa

How do you Know Liz? Through working with her in the Navy Sexual Assault Prevention and Response Program. ( SAPR)

When and Where did you meet? I met Liz in 2005 when she became a Navy Sexual Assault Prevention and Response Coordinator (SARC )

Memory:

Liz has always been so passionate about her work and the victims whose lives that have been affected by sexual assault. Liz is a fighter and has made a difference for so many and for the SAPR program.

Memory From: Penny

How do you Know Liz? Nephews wife

When and Where did you meet? One of the family weddings!

Memory:

Memory From: Ellen Gallagher

How do you Know Liz? She was a member at my gym, CrossFit Old Bay

When and Where did you meet? 2014?? CrossFit Old Bay, Annapolis MD

Memory:

Liz was always hustling. Almost always just a teensy bit late for class, she would crush the power walk in her power suit to the changing room...er, bathroom. Boys, a lesson: if you're going to be late, look sorry and hustle your tail off. All will be forgiven.

What she didn't know was that all was forgiven before she walked in the door - in my mind she was late because out in the parking lot/phone booth she was changing out of her wonder-woman costume into earth-people clothes. She was out in the world helping make it a better place. Kicking tail and taking names! A real live bad ass! She could have been as late as she needed to be.

Then, her workouts...her determination in the gym caused me to up my game. She wanted to get better. NOW. I was totally with her because I was exactly like her - always kind of hating CrossFit but always coming back because hard is secretly fun.

Today I visited my church. She's a tree. I hope that's ok. With the sun setting over the water and warming my face I was able to summon with enormous gratitude and through every atom of my being, the great joy of knowing and coaching Liz. And I hope that some magic came and whisked that big energy to the Blanc house. You can use up that energy because I have what I need: I am a better person for having known and coached Liz.

P.S. I'm really sorry I never took a flattering picture of Liz at the gym, I shall submit a proxy instead.

Memory From: Jeffrey Gendason

How do you Know Liz? I met Liz when she first checked onto Ft. Meade to be the Navy Sexual Assault Response Coordinator.

When and Where did you meet? 2007

Memory:

Meeting Liz for the first time, I knew from the get go she was a superstar and was going to make a significant impact to not only the Ft. Meade Sailors but to the Department of Defense (DoD) as a whole. Liz's passion to serve, advise and protect those affected by serious acts of violence is one of the reasons why she is so respected throughout the DoD. Also, she is one of the best presenters I have ever listened to. Every presentation I ever sat through, she was well spoken, energetic and so passionate and kept the audience engaged during serious topics of discussions. Finally, seeing Liz battle through a life threatening illness and never giving up for her family and friends speaks volumes for the kind of person she is and a true inspiration for all.

Memory From: Jason Shand

How do you Know Liz? Friends and Neighbor

When and Where did you meet? 2013, CrossFit Old Bay

Memory:

I first met your mom and dad at CrossFit Old Bay when I was a coach and they were in my class. When it came to rowing, your dad was always one of the best in the class, but when it came to just about anything else, your mom was the better athlete (especially with a jump rope). Many couples at the gym would always go separate ways but your parents would always partner during partner workouts and share a friendly rivalry in the box.

Not long after meeting your parents, we moved down the street. Your dad and I became good friends. My wife, Katie, and I used to come over on special occasions and chat on our nightly walks. That all changed when my son, Zaden, was born. He had a tough time sleeping when he was an infant and Katie wasn't getting any sleep so your parents offered to have her sleep there until the sleeping issues subsided. They also gave me a place to sleep when our house was packed with people one time. That's just the type of people your dad and mom are. Always willing to lend a hand or be kind to others.

I can still remember the day your parents told me Liz was pregnant with Grayson. I was out for a walk when I learned the news and they were both so incredibly excited. It was a cool time because Zaden was born not long before Grayson came along. Hopefully you all will continue to hang out over the years.

Your mom is caring, cool, smart, funny and tough and I hope you both aspire to be just like her.

Memory From: Carrie Anne Kelly

How do you Know Liz? CrossFit

When and Where did you meet? First old bay, then Fairwinds Crossfit

Memory:

You were a part of one of the very first classes I taught at Fairwinds. I was so nervous because it was one of your first days back and I wanted to make sure I was good enough to give you the workout you needed, given everything you’d been going through. You were so kind to me and really made me feel like I could be a coach. And of course you crushed the WOD like a beast because that’s who you are!

Memory From: Kinjal Vadlamani

How do you Know Liz? Worked together at SAPRO

When and Where did you meet? November 2013. She was the first SARC that took me up on a face-to-face meeting in the DC area.

Memory:

Liz is an inspiration! In the 5 years that I knew her she had a way to always making me do better. Liz always has high expectations but also has a way of knowing exactly what you can handle. She never asks for so much that its overwhelming but just enough that you both know that you are doing your absolute best. Getting to work so closely for my last two years at RAINN really was a treat and I could not have asked for a better colleague, mentor, and friend.

Memory From: Brian Pampuro

How do you Know Liz? Friend and colleague

When and Where did you meet? In February 2007 when I began working at FFSC Annapolis

Memory:

When I first met Liz, I could tell immediately that she was full of energy, extremely intelligent, totally dedicated and a very professional young woman. We were both working for the same contract company (Zeiders) for the Department of the Navy. It didn’t take long to discover we had a few things in common. We were both New Englanders, we had a great sense of humor, we loved to laugh and we had little patience for some of the work related nonsense we were dealing with on a daily basis.

We spent much time chatting, sharing stories, telling jokes and trying to provide the best service we could for our clients and constituents. Our work relationship morphed into a wonderful friendship. Eventually, Liz and her fiancée at the time, Ryan had visited our home for parties and get-togethers. We really enjoyed their company and their friendship.

When Liz and Ryan were married, my wife, Jayne and I were thrilled and honored to be invited to their wedding in Florida. We had such a grand time at their beautiful wedding. We met family members from both sides of the family and had an unforgettable time.

Shortly after they married, I accepted a new job in Bethesda and soon after, Liz took another position at a higher echelon in the government. As time passed, we didn’t see Liz and Ryan nearly as much as we would’ve liked. We stayed connected through Facebook and an occasional text or e-mail. Though we didn’t see each other as often as we should have, Liz and Ryan remained in our hearts, our minds and often in our conversations.

It was no surprise to me at all, not one bit, that Liz reached the highest levels of government service as a result of her compassion, drive and determination to mitigate or eliminate sexual assault related incidents occurring within the Department of Defense. No one could have a better advocate, counselor or teacher.

Jayne and I couldn’t have been happier to learn that Liz and Ryan were going to have their first baby. It was obvious that they were very happy and excited to start a family. When Grayson arrived, It could not have been possible to see Liz and Ryan any happier or proud. Being a Mommy and Daddy fit them perfectly.

It was only a short time later that we learned about Liz’s health challenges. We were shocked and dismayed because Liz had always taken every step and measure to stay healthy and fit. We knew that if anyone was going to face this challenge “head on,” that it would be Liz.

We learned about Liz expecting baby #2 while she was undergoing treatment for her cancer. We crossed our fingers and prayed that everything would go well with both treatment and the baby building process. After Beckett arrived, we were thankful that everything was going to be fine.

This past Summer (2018), I received a note from Liz’s Uncle Hank. Hank advised me that Liz was, again, facing some medical challenges and was hospitalized once again. I went to visit her and was elated but not surprised to find Ryan there too. We had a wonderful visit and were able to pick-up right where we had left off without missing a beat. I was glad that I had the opportunity to catch up with dear friends but wished it had been under different circumstances.

More recently, we learned that Liz’s health was severely compromised and that her time with us may be in jeopardy. We were devastated at the news and our hearts absolutely crushed. I’ve spent a great deal of time trying to understand and comprehend it all. Looking for the answer to why? All we can do is hope and pray for God to grant Liz and all who love her a miracle. My fingers are crossed!!

I would like to share my thoughts about Liz. Liz the wife to Ryan, the Mom to Grayson and Beckett, the colleague and professional, the teacher, counselor and mentor to many. Liz my friend.

Life is a beautiful thing and what we do in the time we are here should be those things of our choosing and that which makes us pure joy and happiness. I think Liz did just that. Her greatest accomplishment was not in profession but as a Mother, bringing two beautiful boys into this world. It is quite evident to anyone who knows or even sees Liz with her boys, how great her love for them is.

Liz is a wonderful wife to Ryan. Jayne and I always felt they were a great balance for one another and brought the best in each other for all to marvel and enjoy. Liz and Ryan together had great chemistry. Two beautiful people with wonderful personalities and an unbridled love for one another.

As a friend, what more can I say? I literally enjoyed every moment engaged in discussion with Liz. Whether we were sharing a light hearted story of our past, telling a joke, talking about professional matters or solving world hunger, each and every moment is a priceless memory for me. I wouldn’t trade a moment that we shared for anything.

There are two sayings that I think best describe Liz Blanc and I quote:

“The things you do for yourself are gone when you are gone, but the things you do for others remain your legacy forever.”

“Be easy to love, hard to break and impossible to forget.”

For Liz - No matter the outcome of your trials and tribulations, know this, you are loved more than you know. We love you and Jayne and I have been blessed to have you in the tapestry of our journey.

Memory From: Mich (Michelle) Galvanek

How do you Know Liz? Liz is my neighbor and friend

When and Where did you meet? I met Liz on the first day that my daughter, Lily Cate and I moved into our new home in Annapolis (Hunt Meadow). Liz came over to introduce herself to me after my daughter was playing in her yard.

Memory:

I met Liz on the first day that my daughter Lily Cate and I moved into our new home in Annapolis. We had driven 2000 miles from Colorado and had been living in a friend's basement for 12 days, waiting for our belongings to arrive. On the first day in the new house, Lily Cate, who was almost eight, was riding her bike and running around the cul-de-sac with the neighborhood kids. After she'd been outside for a little while, there was a knock on my door. It was Liz. She came to introduce herself and to let me know that Lily Cate was playing in her yard and was always welcome. And in that instant, I knew I had chosen the right neighborhood for us to live in.

When we had visited last May from CO, I had asked a friend to recommend neighborhoods for us to look at and my friend asked me what my most important priority was. I responded with "community." What I wanted for our new life was a sense of community. And as I stood there talking to my new neighbor, Liz immediately provided that to us. Liz welcomed Lily Cate to come over and play in their awesome back yard and invited us to watch movies in the back yard. She gave me lots of tips to help me settle in to the neighborhood and always made time for me. I loved talking to Liz and getting to know her.

When I posted on a public mom's forum looking to hire a handyman to help me hang Christmas lights outside of our house, Liz reached out and said that Ryan would be happy to help. So the whole family came over to help Lily Cate and me hang our lights and decorations for our first Christmas in Annapolis. I was very grateful. They didn't give it a second thought -- they just showed up to bring happiness to an eight-year old and her mom.

It was not long after the hanging of the Christmas lights that Liz's cancer came back. Her strength and resolve to fight as hard as she can for her family inspires me. While I haven't known her as long as many other people have, she has touched my life and I feel blessed to call her my friend.

Grayson and Beckett, your mom is amazing. She is loving and kind and strong and smart and has made a difference in the lives of many people - both at work and in her personal life. Oh how she LOVES you and your dad. It is an understatement to say that the battle she is fighting is unfair.

My life is better from meeting and being friends with Liz Blanc.

Love,

Mich/Michelle

Love, Mich (Michelle)

Memory From: Alexandra Lane

How do you Know Liz? First playgroup and BCDS.

When and Where did you meet? Growing up in the very early 1980s.

Memory:

The Russos, Rumbolds, Morrisons and Lanes had many fun adventures together including a trip to Nantucket and our first trip to Disney World!

Memory From: Alexandra Lane

How do you Know Liz? Playgroup and BCDS.

When and Where did you meet? Growing up in the very early 1980s.

Memory:

Our first trip to Disney World!

Memory From: Julia Strange

How do you Know Liz? The Wild Wild World of SAPR

When and Where did you meet? Las Vegas, NV in January 2012

Memory:

I first met Liz at the Green Dot Violence Prevention Educator Certification training in Las Vegas, NV, just six months after I had started working for the Navy SAPR program. My ears perked up as soon as I heard her share out with the group that she also worked for the Navy. And I was impressed and endeared to Liz when she said that attending this training was her Christmas present from her husband and that she was using vacation leave to be there, that's how dedicated she is to ending sexual violence. We had a lovely dinner one night and kept each other company over lunch while we were waiting to head to the airport for our respective flights home. Over lunch, we talked about our backgrounds, where we grew up, whether we wanted to have kids (the answer was "I think so" for both of us, but also reflecting on what a big change it would be in our lives). Fast-forward to Liz starting a job at the Navy Yard and us grabbing lunch every once in a while when we could squeeze it in. I was thrilled when Liz was pregnant with Grayson, and also awed by her guts in taking a job at DoD SAPRO during that time. I knew she was destined for bigger things, Liz is whip-smart and a keen observer. I knew she'd continue to be a super-star at SAPRO. This of course meant that we got to grab lunch every once in a while at the Mark Center when I was there for meetings, catching up on the joys and challenges of toddlers, office dynamics, and trying to balance it all. Knowing Liz and her dedication to survivors has given me continued energy to stick with SAPR even on the days when I'm feeling salty with the military or frustrated with set-backs. I know we're making an impact. Thank you for being a bad-ass, Liz!

Memory From: Marj Fackovec

How do you Know Liz?

When and Where did you meet? 2002 while dating Hank

Memory:

Liz has made me feel part of the family from the start. Being part of her life is a joy. I admire her heart and compassion

Memory From: Ryan Gallucci

How do you Know Liz? Baby class, crossfit, and work

When and Where did you meet? Annapolis at Anne Arundel Medical Center for baby classes in 2015 while we were all expecting our first. Also briefly through Crossfit Old Bay...

Memory:

Though we met before becoming new parents, Liz made a major impact at my work for the VFW, where my team helps veterans receive their benefits from Department of Veterans Affairs after leaving the military.

Knowing a little bit about her work for Department of Defense SAPR, I asked Liz to provide training to our advocates at two conferences in Annapolis back in 2016 on the difficult topic of sexual assault in the military.

Liz was able to use her knowledge and passion on this tough issue to help our advocates better understand what victims have to cope with and how to best advocate alongside them.

I distinctly remember two parts of her training that will stick with me and our students for years to come.

First, Liz asked who in the room had worked with an assault survivor on a benefits claim. Lots of hands went up. She then asked how many feel they could have done a better job. Nearly all the hands stayed up. We needed her help and felt comfortable enough to admit that to Liz. (The hands up is the picture I shared...)

Liz taught us lots of technical aspects of military record keeping that we needed to know, but she also leaned heavily on soft skills like empathy and active listening that better prepared our team to help.

Finally, I remember one anecdote that drove home the differences between consent and assault that I still "borrow" to help drive the point home. Liz told the class that she commuted every day from Annapolis to Arlington, Virginia. If one day someone got into her car, held her at gunpoint and made her drive to Arlington, would we just say that she was commuting?

With that story, people got it.

In these two conferences, Liz taught more than 200 advocates from around the world skills that we will continue to use to be the best possible advocates for veterans who need it the most.

Personally, I learned a lot from Liz and will always be thankful for the time she gave (on the weekend!) to teach us something we really needed.

Memory From: Jessica Blanc

How do you Know Liz? Liz is my cousin

When and Where did you meet? It was a warm day in Florida...

Memory:

My most memorable night with Liz was when she came to Chicago for a conference and our works schedules aligned where we were able to have dinner together. We met up at a great vegetarian restaurant in Noble Square.

Liz and I talked about our personal lives on a deeper level than we might otherwise at family events, the ever changing struggles of our careers, and the world at large. We enjoyed talking in depth about the many areas of life where we saw eye-to-eye, even though neither one of us would shy away from a debate had we not agreed! At the end of the dinner, I'd like to believe we both walked away feeling closer and understood each other as friends. Liz is a great friend, mom, advocate and fighter. She will fight for the rights of others and most of all, she will fight for her family. Liz is great and loved by many!

Memory From: Adrienne Moore

How do you Know Liz? She hired me to be a SAPR victim advocate for Naval District Washington

When and Where did you meet? Washington, DC

Memory:

Liz hired me and because of my schedule, I couldn't go to the training until after she'd already left the job at the Navy Yard. But when she came back to my 40 hour training to talk as part of the Washington call center, she remembered me and was thrilled that I had finally become a victim advocate. She is absolutely a bright light, and the best of people.

Memory From: Elissa

How do you Know Liz? PEA

When and Where did you meet? I don’t remember specifically but it must have been at JV soccer practice with ole’ Mr Wu.

Memory:

I wish I had one big, beautiful, poignant memory...but I don’t because I’m lame. I do, however, remember an amalgam of times spent on Saturday sleepovers, an afternoon taking lacrosse shots on you, and one hilarious afternoon on the soccer bus laughing so hard turkey sandwich came out my nose — incidentally I have no idea what we were laughing AT but I distinctly remember the uncomfortable feeling of sandwich making an early exit. Love to you all, your beautiful family and fierce fight.

Memory From: Uncle Curt & Karen

How do you Know Liz? Liz is married to our nephew.

When and Where did you meet? Believed to be around 2010

Memory:

This is one of the hardest requests that we have been asked to undertake. This is truly difficult at this time (Feb. 2020). We are your great-uncle & aunt, on your Dad's side of the family. Lacking any true memories, stories and or tales we believe that the best we can do is to relate to you our fondest thoughts and prayers at a later date. We also invite you both(Grayson & Beckett) to please contact us so that we can express our feelings that are present at this writing. Hopefully, when you are both older a thought from this time may be comforting.

Memory From: Sarah Taheri

How do you Know Liz? Exeter

When and Where did you meet? 1994 Dunbar

Memory:

Liz,

Gopi doesn’t do FB but she wanted to reach out. We love you and think about you constantly. I will never forget our nights with you, me, Gopi and Corey in your double. Please let me know how else I can help.

Love,

Sarah

Dear Liz

I want to send you so much love and my prayers. I remember your bright and cheerful spirit in high school. I always appreciated your kindness and positivity. You have a beautiful family. You were a rock in high school and even more fierce now.

Love

Gopi Shah

Memory From: Jen gutmore

How do you Know Liz? I’m friends with her sister-in-law

When and Where did you meet? Dara’s bridal shower

Memory:

Liz is a truly lovely and tremendously strong person. She is fiercely loyal to her family

Memory From: Marc Baldwin

How do you Know Liz? I met Liz through the Sexual Assault Prevention and Response program at Fort Meade, MD. She was the Response Coordinator for our command.

When and Where did you meet? I think I met her for the first time at an general military training session that we were all required to attend.

Memory:

At the time I met Liz, I had been aware of sexual assault victim advocates for 15-20 years. I was around when the Navy Tailhook scandal happened, and so I was probably one of those people that viewed the program as "just another Navy requirement."

Liz changed all that. As I listened to her teach about sexual assault, I began to change. She is such a great communicator, speaks not only with passion on the subject, but her compassion for victims really touched me. As I sat there with 200-300 other people, she convinced me that this was a fight that deserved my attention and my commitment. I'm not a victim of sexual assault myself, but she was able to teach in a way that resulted in an increased empathy for sexual assault victims and an increased awareness of what we can all do to help prevent it from happening. There was no fighting the feeling that she caused inside of me. Sign me up!

I went through the week-long Victim Advocate training that she led for those interested. It goes without saying that it is a very difficult subject, and can be overwhelming at times. But Liz was amazing. She was incredibly encouraging. An expert, super smart, passionate, and above all, she was dedicated to building a team - an army - of people that were committed to preventing sexual assault and advocating for victims. She convinced me that I could help - that I could make a major impact.

It was the start of a journey for me in the fight against sexual assault. I wouldn't be the same person that I am without her dedication to encouraging others to take up the fight with her. My whole outlook on victims - domestic violence, sexual assault, human trafficking, child abuse - has changed for the better, and it never would have happened without Liz.

Lastly, I learned to encourage people to contribute and give, even just a little. We really don't know the impact we might ultimately have on the people we come in contact with. Liz, I have no doubt that my story is just one of a thousand similar stories. Thank you for the impact that you've made on my life. I'm a better person because of you.

Memory From: Jody Bauer

How do you Know Liz? SASS Advocate Training Portsmouth 2000

When and Where did you meet? Portsmouth

Memory:

Liz and I began our careers during advocate training in 2000 at SASS

Memory From: Evan Sanders

How do you Know Liz? College at Boston University. We lived in the same dorm and had some psych classes together. We were both active in the residence hall association as well.

When and Where did you meet? I can't remember if we met freshman or sophomore year, but she stood out to me since we lived in the same dorm AND were in class together, so she became a familiar face.

Memory:

Liz is someone I simply associate with positivity. Honestly, I had a big crush on her when I first started seeing her around :) And I was glad to become friendly with her around campus when I discovered she was friends with my co-officer of the Towers residence hall association during our sophomore year. Liz was always ready to greet me with a smile and good conversation. Thinking of Liz and her loved ones.

Memory From: Linda Schmid

How do you Know Liz? SARC’s together

When and Where did you meet? 2009. Your Mom trained me.

Memory:

I shared my story and sent it via messenger to Liz.

Memory From: Joy Foster

How do you Know Liz? Exeter

When and Where did you meet? Exeter

Memory:

Liz was one of the nicest girls I met at Exeter. I was a brand new student and didn't know anyone! She made me feel super welcome and was always positive.

She is such a fighter and a true inspiration. I know she will be watching over and guiding her family from above.

Thank you for being such a blessing to me and so many others Liz, we all love you.

Joy

Memory From: Charles Donohoe

How do you Know Liz? Phillips Exeter Academy

When and Where did you meet? Phillips Exeter Academy, Fall of 1997

Memory:

I did not know Liz well, but I knew she was poised, elegant, and kind. I was keenly aware that she had spent a year in France, and we would often cross paths as I was on my way out of our French teacher’s classroom and she was arriving for one on one tutorials - I believe because she had advanced beyond the courses we had to offer. She had the style of a sophisticated woman who had lived in France - turtlenecks, tailored pants - clean, sleek lines. And only 17 or 18 years old.

The other point to share, and I mean this, is her smile. It was always bright - and more importantly - genuine. Liz would make eye contact, smile, and share a few words of flawless French.

Memory From: Quixada (Kiki)

How do you Know Liz? Liz and I were classmates at Exeter but I actually got to know her at BU when we were randomly paired as suite mates in a brownstone.

When and Where did you meet? BU dorm

Memory:

Liz, you were always an awesome suitemate - so friendly and easy going and kind! It was really lovely living with you at that time of life!

Memory From: Joy Foster

How do you Know Liz? Exeter

When and Where did you meet? Exeter

Memory:

Liz was one of the nicest girls I met at Exeter. I was a brand new student and didn't know anyone! She made me feel super welcome and was always positive.

She is such a fighter and a true inspiration. I know she will be watching over and guiding her family from above.

Thank you for being such a blessing to me and so many others Liz, we all love you.

Joy

Memory From: Charles Donohoe

How do you Know Liz? Phillips Exeter Academy

When and Where did you meet? Phillips Exeter Academy, Fall of 1997

Memory:

I did not know Liz well, but I knew she was poised, elegant, and kind. I was keenly aware that she had spent a year in France, and we would often cross paths as I was on my way out of our French teacher’s classroom and she was arriving for one on one tutorials - I believe because she had advanced beyond the courses we had to offer. She had the style of a sophisticated woman who had lived in France - turtlenecks, tailored pants - clean, sleek lines. And only 17 or 18 years old.

The other point to share, and I mean this, is her smile. It was always bright - and more importantly - genuine. Liz would make eye contact, smile, and share a few words of flawless French.

Memory From: Quixada (Kiki)

How do you Know Liz? Liz and I were classmates at Exeter but I actually got to know her at BU when we were randomly paired as suite mates in a brownstone.

When and Where did you meet? BU dorm

Memory:

Liz, you were always an awesome suitemate - so friendly and easy going and kind! It was really lovely living with you at that time of life!

Memory From: Katie Shand

How do you Know Liz? Friends and old neighbors

When and Where did you meet? Crossfit Old Bay and neighbors

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I first met Liz through Crossfit Old Bay- where my husband coached Crossfit. We also lived down the street from the Blancs for a few years while living in Annapolis. Liz is always so sweet and down-to-earth. She is easy to talk to and super, crazy smart. I remember having lunch with her at Paladar one day and thinking- she is just the best. So great in fact, that when we all started having kids and my baby wouldn’t sleep- she and Ryan let me sleep in their guest room overnight so my husband could sleep train our kid! I am a better person for meeting and knowing someone like Liz Blanc.

Memory From: Tina

How do you Know Liz? We worked together at SASS in Portsmouth, back in 2005/06 or so.

When and Where did you meet? I think the first time we met was at a volunteer training - she was the one doing the training!

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I have so many fun memories of Liz in NH, but what I really want to highlight is what a great friend she was to me when I was floundering in the wake of an ugly, unexpected breakup. After months of moping around, she dragged me out and forced me to be social and meet people...and by "people" I really mean cute boys of questionable repute, ha ha. Like that time downstairs at Poco's, throwing back shots of SoCo and lime (I still shudder at the thought, and can't touch the stuff to this day!). What were we thinking?!? Ryan, you may have played the instigator in that episode, LOL.

The point is that your mom is really great at being the friend that you need, and I'm so grateful that our paths overlapped way back when in NH, even if only for a few short years. I've always regretted drifting apart, and so wish that we could have had the chance to reconnect. Your mom is a gem, and she is so loved.

Memory From: Andres

How do you Know Liz? Exeter

When and Where did you meet? Lower Year

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Your mother and I spent a lot of time together during our Lower year at Exeter. We first got to know each other through our mutual friends who were dating but then we formed a friendship on our own. The thing I remember best about her was her big, ever-present smile. I always looked forward to seeing her because she radiated such positive energy and she had an amazing self-deprecating sense of humor that always made me laugh. I remember being most impressed by how self-confident she was. She surrounded herself with amazing people like Corey and her brother and I remember her being so happy for them every time they accomplished something great. I loved how grounded Liz was and how selflessly she loved her friends. You are very lucky to have Liz as your mother because I know she has taught you how to live life filled with love and joy.

Memory From: Maria Muth Connor

How do you Know Liz? Childhood friend

When and Where did you meet? Buckley Country Day School, Mrs. Leaf's Kindergarten, Fall 1985

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Throughout our childhood, I envied Liz...her straight golden hair, her strength, her riding skills, her intelligence, her athleticism. She always rocked her cornrows after returning from a family vacation to Barbados! I vividly remember sleepovers at her house with Godiva and Hershey chasing us around the yard, crazy games of Manhunt with Peter C., van ride sing-a-longs to Les Mis (the London recording) and Hotel California, second visit day to Choate (even though Liz and Michael chose Exeter), and that time Liz married Michael in our 8th grade musical!

Liz, you were always a loyal friend who supported all those around you and I feel blessed to have grown up with you. There is no doubt that your spirit will live on in your boys and family.

Till we meet again old friend...

Memory From: Julian

How do you Know Liz? CrossFit

When and Where did you meet? Annapolis

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I met Liz at CrossFit and as I was new she was one of the friendliest and most welcoming people I met at the gym. I shared a number of funny conversations with Liz as we struggled together on the rowing machine or as she was passing me outside as I struggled to keep up....Liz was ALWAYS one of the nicest people you could meet and you couldn’t have asked for a nicer person ❤️

Memory From: Ama Boah Loughman

How do you Know Liz? Met in High school (Exeter)

When and Where did you meet? Dunbar Hall 1994

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Liz, I remember meeting our freshman (prep) year in our dorm at Exeter, Dvnbar Hall. You were always brimming with smiles and laughter!! Our dorm was a close bunch so over the years, whether walking out to sports practices, eating in the dining hall, or gossiping at our dorm grill, your joy was always felt. I shared classes with your brother Mike as well and watching you both interact was always a treat. Sending lots of love and peace to you Liz, your sons, husband, brother and all you know and love you. Xoxo

Memory From: Laura (Cheatham) Rojas

How do you Know Liz? I went to Buckley with her from (I think) pre-k through 8th grade.

When and Where did you meet? 1984 at Buckley in Roslyn, NY

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Liz is an amazing person! She was such a strong athlete and competitor. I used to admire her ability to play any sport with ease. I used to love going over to Liz’s house for play dates! We would always have the best time from teaching me how to shave my legs (lol) to running around in her back yard on the tennis court!

Liz and I did not stay in touch past Buckley but I think of her with the happiest memories of a fun childhood.

Liz always has a place in my heart from that wonderful time in lives at Buckley.

Memory From: Tim Raymond

How do you Know Liz? Fort Meade Sexual Assault and Response Program

When and Where did you meet? Forte Meade MD, 2007

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Ryan and the boys, I don't need to tell you that Liz (your Mom) is an incredible person, because we all know it.

I was part of the (Sexual Assault Response and Prevention) SARP program at Fort Meade, which Liz was in charge of at the time. She was an incredible leader, and she was such an inspiration to all of us. She loved her job and her passion for helping people was apparent in how much time and effort she invested in everything she did.

We were recognized as having the best SARP program in the region, and this was directly because of Liz. Our military leadership relied on Liz for her expertise, and they always had full faith and confidence in her, which is a pretty big deal. Everyone loved Liz because of her kindness and empathy to others, she always had a smile on her face. She was also tough and determined, she didn't let anything get in her way. I was always in awe of her, and I am so grateful to have known her.

She has been a bright light in a dark world. Her kindness and generosity will never be forgotten by me and so many others. We love you Liz!

Memory From: Kris Boyd

How do you Know Liz? She was the Angel I needed to not only help me get the White House Military Office Sexual Assault and Prevention Response(SAPR) program off the ground but also helped me face so many of my demons. Because of her the All the SAPR programs she touched were successful and people that weren’t aware or not really cared about training became aware, helpful and overally excited.

When and Where did you meet? Liz and I met 2013 via phone call but officially met 2013 at Joint Base Anacostia-Bolling in her office.

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Liz has a presence about her that when you saw her you had no choice but to just smile. Liz is a true angel sent from God Because ever person she touches feels enlightened and overjoyed about life. Try doing a business orientation for new people knowing that there tired and the last thing they want to talk about is Sexual harassment and Sexual Assault. I will tell you once she smiled and started talking everyone listened. I was told time after time we had the best presentation/training. That’s because of my Sister Liz. I say Sister because in the Navy we have a saying in the Chiefs Mess that we’re all related one way or another. Liz may not be a Chief but she’s impacted so many of us from Virginia to Maryland that she is an honorary Sis to us all. I was stationed in Washington state from 2017 to 2020. In 2018 I had the privilege to meet the Naval Station Everett Sexual Assault Response Coordinator(SARC). I told her the position I held at the White House and asked her if she knew Liz. She said without missing a beat that everyone knows Liz. That’s a testimony of someone who was enlightened by our angel.

Memory From: Danielle (“Dee”)

How do you Know Liz? We were next door neighbors when I lived with Gorden

When and Where did you meet?

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I enjoyed sharing a few laughs together over their pup Bella and how funny she was when my dog Mikko was out with me. He was 3x the size of her and a Pit, but he was the sweetest dog who was definitely intimidated by little Bella!

Memory From: Betsy Lehman Savery

How do you Know Liz? Liz was my fourth grade student at Buckley.

When and Where did you meet? I met Liz when she entered my classroom at Buckley before the school year started.

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When I think of Liz, a big smile and a swinging pony tail quickly comes to mind. Confident, smart, witty, and loyal- even in the fourth grade. I think also about her brother, her twin, and their special bond. I watched her mature into a graceful, young woman over the years at Buckley and I knew then that she would make a difference in our world, and she has. She has always been courageous and filled with life, which she has passed on to two little boys. May they know how special their mother is and how dear she is to so many.

Memory From: David Griffith

How do you Know Liz? Work

When and Where did you meet? DoD SAPRO

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Liz never let anything stand in her way, and she never quit. She cared about everyone and will be missed by everyone who knew her. I know that she rests in heaven tonight....God bless.

Memory From: Emily Ruzbarsky Alexander

How do you Know Liz?

When and Where did you meet? 2015 at DOD SAPRO

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There are not many truly authentic people like Liz. In a tough or stressful situation, she never loses a sense of humor, empathy, or the get it done mentality.

Liz is associated with one of my very favorite life events: my wedding. For my bachelorette party, I wanted nothing more than to spend a quiet weekend with close friends who are spread out across the world. We went to Annapolis and had a fabulous time lounging on the bay side. Of course, life events tend to mesh with other big events, like my first real work trip.

So, off I go to BWI at 8am Sunday morning. Who is the first person I see as I walk in the airport? Liz. Her first words to me were “are those tattoos on your arms??” I looked at my arms.. lo and behold. There are two heart tattoos with my best friends’ names on them. While Liz helped me get them off, she told me hilarious stories from working with the Navy. And then we laughed about it all before getting to San Diego.

Liz kicked butt that weekend, giving presentations and catching up with colleagues across the US. She was a woman in action — laughing, making relationships, and getting it done.

Memory From: Margaret Montana

How do you Know Liz? We met Liz through Ryan whose parents are our dearest friends.

When and Where did you meet? At Ryan's parents house during one one of our many visits to Florida

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My husband and I spent some relaxing quality time with Liz & Grayson in the lazy river at the Hyatt during Dara and Cliff's wedding weekend in Estero in 2017. So happy we had that time together now.